On Small Details
yeah yeah yeah mortifying ordeal of being known and all that but...
Sometimes a friend mentions something about you that you didn’t think was noticeable and it feels like your heart is being cradled in their hands.
I secretly love when people notice small details or point out things about myself and the way I act, good or bad it doesn’t matter. It’s almost like i jot down a mental note and keep track or what they said. Not sure if this is a infj thing or not but it sounds fitting enough to be.
Honestly I don’t feel it’s from a desire to be noticed even (much more comfortable not having a lot of attention on me) but rather because I’m always picking up on details of others, even if I don’t say it, so it’s a fun little surprise when someone does it back to me. It’s like, oh! You speak my strange language!